16/8/2014 看多想多听多了，就明白了。

I finally understand. Love cannot be measured by the amount of effort one has put in. A relationship is not like mathematics, which can always be defined by formulas like addition, substraction or equalities. From the very start, we are so different, in terms of personalities, likings etc. When time goes by, the difference becomes more distinct, the gap between us gets bigger, we start to feel that we might not be the right one for each other. We have been struggling long enough to keep this relationship going. I believe that he has actually given me all that he could, and he meant everything he said to me. It's unfair that I sometimes think he hasn't cared enough, because I can see that he tried his best. I am very grateful of all the forgiveness, acceptance, tolerance and immeasurable love he has shared with me. I wouldn't be who I am today, without him. It is really not about that that we have reach this point. Like what he sent me once not long ago, quoted from 500 Days of Summer, "People change, feelings change. It doesn't mean that the love once shared wasn't true and real. It simply means that sometimes when people grow, they grow apart." I think, we just grow apart. Perhaps, Its time for me to let go, let him find the right girl, who suits him better, who knows how to love him better, who understands him better, who shares the same love language as him and who is more acceptable by his family. I'm just really glad that this only happen when he is starting to enjoy the kind of university life he should be having at this age, having fun with his new group of friends besides the hectic studying life. I'm also relieved that he starts to open up to his new friends in his social circle, and bond with them through the activities that really interest him. 

It hurts to recall all those memories we once shared in the almost 4 years time. However, they're too precious to be forgotten. I'm certain he will remain an important place in my heart forever, for he has changed me so immensely since the day we met. I have made a decision, I should be responsible for it. He has been very kind to be there for me after the break up, even when he doesn't have to. I think it's time for me to bury the love and feelings now and move on. I will take good care of myself, do not worry. Thank you for everything, my love. 

“不是你不对不好，只是我们太不一样。时间久了，差距越来越大，变得不适合了。继续强求，也变得没意义了。何不放手，让他找更适合他，更会爱他，更会明白他的人。不想再怨，因为这对他不公平，我相信他已经曾经把他最好的爱都给了我。至少，在我离开时，他找到了他应有的大学生活，也有了一班陪他一起享受，一起快乐的朋友，真正的交友生活。我决定不要再想，不要再说什么。

我，会好好的，放心吧。谢谢你。”

Tiff. 

No one should be blamed for anything. 

We just..happen to grow apart. 

Thanks for everything.